Personality and Temperaments

The Kiersey Temperament Test revealed that I was (or am) an Idealist (http://www.keirsey.com/4temps/idealist_overview.asp).

Idealists (NFs), as a temperament, are passionately concerned with personal growth and development. Idealists strive to discover who they are and how they can become their best possible self — always this quest for self-knowledge and self-improvement drives their imagination. And they want to help others make the journey. Idealists are naturally drawn to working with people, and whether in education or counseling, in social services or personnel work, in journalism or the ministry, they are gifted at helping others find their way in life, often inspiring them to grow as individuals and to fulfill their potentials.

All Idealists share the following core characteristics:

  • Idealists are enthusiastic, they trust their intuition, yearn for romance, seek their true self, prize meaningful relationships, and dream of attaining wisdom.
  • Idealists pride themselves on being loving, kindhearted, and authentic.
  • Idealists tend to be giving, trusting, spiritual, and they are focused on personal journeys and human potentials.
  • Idealists make intense mates, nurturing parents, and inspirational leaders.

Idealists are sure that friendly cooperation is the best way for people to achieve their goals. Conflict and confrontation upset them because they seem to put up angry barriers between people. Idealists dream of creating harmonious, even caring personal relations, and they have a unique talent for helping people get along with each other and work together for the good of all. Such interpersonal harmony might be a romantic ideal, but then Idealists are incurable romantics who prefer to focus on what might be, rather than what is. The real, practical world is only a starting place for Idealists; they believe that life is filled with possibilities waiting to be realized, rich with meanings calling out to be understood. This idea of a mystical or spiritual dimension to life, the “not visible” or the “not yet” that can only be known through intuition or by a leap of faith, is far more important to Idealists than the world of material things.

Highly ethical in their actions, Idealists hold themselves to a strict standard of personal integrity. They must be true to themselves and to others, and they can be quite hard on themselves when they are dishonest, or when they are false or insincere. More often, however, Idealists are the very soul of kindness. Particularly in their personal relationships, Idealists are without question filled with love and good will. They believe in giving of themselves to help others; they cherish a few warm, sensitive friendships; they strive for a special rapport with their children; and in marriage they wish to find a “soulmate,” someone with whom they can bond emotionally and spiritually, sharing their deepest feelings and their complex inner worlds.

Idealists are relatively rare, making up no more than 15 to 20 percent of the population. But their ability to inspire people with their enthusiasm and their idealism has given them influence far beyond their numbers.

Well-known Idealists (NF)

Arts & Entertainment/Sports/
Journalism/Literature

Politics/Government/Military

Science/Education/Humanities/
Philosophy/Religion

I took another Personality Test today at iPersonic and turns out I am an Idealist still — Spontaneous Idealist, accdg to iPersonic that is.. ;D
Based on the description, I’d say very TRUE (about 88% of a hundred)….. COOL. ;D

http://www.ipersonic.com/type/SI.html

Spontaneous Idealists like you are creative, lively and open-minded persons. You are humorous and dispose of a contagious zest for life. Your enthusiasm and sparkling energy inspires others and sweeps them along. You enjoy being together with other people and often have an uncanny intuition for their motivations and potential. Spontaneous Idealists are masters of communication and very amusing and gifted entertainers. Fun and variety are guaranteed when you are around. However, you are sometimes somewhat too impulsive in dealing with others and can hurt people without really meaning to do so, due to your direct and sometimes critical nature.

You are a keen and alert observer; you miss nothing which is going on around you. In extreme cases, you tend to be oversensitive and exaggeratedly alert and you are inwardly always ready to jump. Life for you is an exciting drama full of emotionality. However, you quickly become bored when things repeat themselves and too much detailed work and care is required. Your creativity, your imaginativeness and your originality become most noticeable when developing new projects and ideas – you then leave the meticulous implementation of the whole to others. On the whole, Spontaneous Idealists attach great value to their inner and outward independence and do not like accepting a subordinate role. You therefore have problems with hierarchies and authorities.

As a Spontaneous Idealist you are one of the extroverted personality types. You enjoy working in a colorfully diverse group of people who interest and inspire you. Working in a “secluded room” is not your thing. Your sense for the motivation of others is almost eerie. You constantly observe that which happens around you and have no problems noticing all sorts of things simultaneously or communicating with several people at the same time.

Your enthusiasm is contagious to others and that is why your colleagues and friends all appreciate you as an important member of your team. Your articulateness and your sensitive ear for nuances in conversations with others obviously play a role. For you, this team-oriented environment is very important because you need to receive positive feedback and recognition like other people need air to breathe. It would be practically impossible for you to contribute everything you need to maintain your high ideals, by yourself.

Variety, challenges and fun are important ingredients of your area of responsibility. You appreciate receiving new stimulation, meeting new people, and continuously collecting unique experiences. However, too much routine, too much detail work and the necessity to stick with one project for a very long time is not your thing. Your strength are creative problem solutions, discovering new ways and opportunities, the conceptualization of new ideas on one hand, but not so much their concrete implementation on the other. Ideally, you have a staff of capable colleagues that takes over your concepts and runs with them.

Here’s another personality and multiple intelligence test I took right after the one from iPersonic
http://www.mypersonality.info/personality-types/enfp/

ENFPs (The Advocate)

ENFPs are introspective, values-oriented, inspiring, social and extremely expressive. They actively send their thoughts and ideas out into the world as a way to bring attention to what they feel to be important, which often has to do with ethics and current events. ENFPs are natural advocates, attracting people to themselves and their cause with excellent people skills, warmth, energy and positivity. ENFPs are described as creative, resourceful, assertive, spontaneous, life-loving, charismatic, passionate and experimental.

They can’t bear to miss out on what is going on around them; they must experience, first hand, all the significant social events that affect our lives.”

“ENFPs are warm, enthusiastic people, typically very bright and full of potential. They live in the world of possibilities, and can become very passionate and excited about things. Their enthusiasm lends them the ability to inspire and motivate others, more so than we see in other types. They can talk their way in or out of anything. They love life, seeing it as a special gift, and strive to make the most out of it.”

Portrait of an ENFP (The Personality Page)

“Friends are what life is about to ENFPs, moreso even than the other NFs. They hold up their end of the relationship, sometimes being victimized by less caring individuals. ENFPs are energized by being around people. Some have realdifficulty being alone, especially on a regular basis.”

ENFP Profile (TypeLogic)

“outgoing, social, disorganized, easily talked into doing silly things, spontaneous, wild and crazy, acts without thinking…”

ENFP Jung Type Descriptions (similarminds.com)

“ENFPs are energetic and enthusiastic leaders who are likely to take charge when a new endeavor needs a visionary spokesperson. ENFPs are values-oriented people who become champions of causes and services relating to human needs and dreams. Their leadership style is one of soliciting and recognizing others’ contributions and of evaluating the personal needs of their followers. ENFPs are oftencharismatic leaders who are able to help people see thepossibilities beyond themselves and their current realities. They function as catalysts.”

ENFP – The Visionary (Lifexplore)

“Ranked 1st of all 16 types in using social and emotional coping resources and 2nd in using cognitive resources. “

ENFP Facts (discoveryourpersonality.com)

There are so many potential ENFP careers that it is difficult to list everything in one short article – however, we hope that the below details will help some ENFPs in their search for the ideal job. This is one of the most universal personality types, jack of all trades and master of some – as long as the ENFP does not get into a career path that is definitely unsuitable for them, they are likely to do well in any role. Your comments and suggestions would be much appreciated – please do not hesitate to leave us a message below if you can think of any other careers that could interest ENFPs.

To begin with, ENFPs have excellent social skills and are astonishingly perceptive. This personality type is unsurpassed when it comes to networking and finding out what makes people tick – this is a great skill in any career. Furthermore, ENFPs have a unique ability to communicate with others on their own level – this allows them to create strong and lasting relationships. Due to these traits, typical ENFP careers involve a lot of personal interaction and require good people skills – for instance, ENFPs can be excellent psychologists, teachers, counselors, diplomats or politicians.

Next, ENFPs tend to be very talented, energetic and future-oriented. They can easily compete with NT types in the career field when it comes to seeing the bigger picture or finding the underlying principle. Furthermore, despite being an F type, ENFPs excel at using their logic, forming a very potent combination of intuition and rationality – they can focus on the main goal and then put together the plan to achieve that goal. There are many potential careers that make good use of these ENFP traits – people with this personality type tend to be brilliant system analysts, scientists, engineers and entrepreneurs. This is where ENFPs can truly shine – for instance, scientists and engineers with great networking and people skills are extraordinarily rare. The same can be said about other ENFP careers, but this is an excellent example of how chillingly effective ENFPs can be in certain jobs.

Finally, people with this personality type have excellent communication skills, both written and verbal. ENFPs can also be truly inspiring leaders in many careers, but they do not try or enjoy controlling other people. However, there are several weak spots in their armor. Firstly, ENFPs need to feel appreciated by their colleagues and superiors – this can threaten their emotional stability in certain cases or careers. Secondly, ENFPs get bored quite quickly and consequently tend to jump from project to project looking for some new and exciting ideas. Thirdly, ENFPs dislike dealing with monotonous tasks and are likely to do everything to avoid them. These traits may hinder their progress in certain careers – however, some ENFPs turn them into strengths. For instance, ENFPs do very well in careers such as writing, journalism, acting or TV reporting – such jobs can ensure that the ENFP never runs out of interesting ideas and have a big audience to keep them going for a long time.

Dating or being in a relationship with an ENFP can be an eye-opening experience – people with this personality type are very imaginative, flexible and enthusiastic, always coming up with new plans and ideas.  ENFPs tend to be passionate and enthusiastic partners, trying really hard to make sure that the other person is happy and showering them with affection. ENFPs also love hearing compliments, often asking for them indirectly.
The ENFP’s partner will appreciate and enjoy the warmth and excitement that this personality type brings into the relationship. ENFPs are mysterious, idealistic and deeply emotional – these traits not only tend to attract potential dating partners, but also keep the flame of their relationship burning for many years to come. People with the ENFP personality type are willing and able to enliven their romantic relationships in unusual and exciting ways, often surprising even their long-term partners. If an ENFP decides to commit to the relationship, their devotedness will be unshakeable
ENFPs are very emotional individuals and this affects their romantic relationships in many ways. Some of the ENFPs’ emotions run quite close to the surface and are easily noticeable, but some are hidden very deep within their minds. This trait may surprise or even shock their partners who may have thought that they had figured everything out – ENFPs tend to be bewilderingly deep and intense individuals, and that intensity is not always apparent.
ENFP personalities are likely to be cheerful, sincere and open-minded friends. They rarely have any difficulties understanding other personality types and interacting with them in their “language”. This is a very rare and valuable trait – even though some of the ENFP’s friends may be unable to reciprocate, they will certainly recognize and appreciate the ENFP’s efforts. People with this personality type are usually able to draw even the most reserved friend out of their shell.

ENFP personalities are likely to be creative, enthusiastic and warm parents. People with this personality type are known for their playfulness and their approach to parenting is a reflection of this – ENFP parents love watching their kids play, experiment and learn. ENFPs dislike environments that are too stable and predictable, and consequently are unlikely to try to create something like this for their children.

ENFP parents tend to be intensely emotional and observant – they will easily notice if their child is not feeling well, either physically or emotionally. However, this affection may also be somewhat overbearing and the ENFP’s children are likely to try to distance themselves from the ENFP a little bit, especially during the teenage years.

People with the ENFP personality type will be very dedicated parents, doing their best to be both their child’s best friend and a respected authority figure. ENFPs will also give their children plenty of freedom and teach them how to have fun without compromising their values and ideals.

~http://www.16personalities.com/enfp-parents

ENFP strengths

  • Observant. ENFP personalities believe that there are no irrelevant details or actions – they try to notice everything, seeing all events as part of a big mysterious puzzle called life.
  • Very popular and friendly. ENFPs are altruistic and cooperative, doing their best to be empathic and friendly in every situation. They can get along with nearly everyone and usually have a large circle of friends and acquaintances.
  • Energetic and enthusiastic. ENFPs are always eager to share their ideas with other people and get their opinions in return. Their enthusiasm is contagious and very inspiring at the same time.
  • Know how to relax. People with this personality type know how to switch off and have fun, simply experiencing life and everything it has to offer. Their wild bursts of enthusiastic energy can often surprise even their closest friends.
  • Excellent communicators. ENFPs tend to have great people skills and they instantly know how to present their ideas in a convincing way. They can handle both small talk and deep, meaningful conversations, although the ENFP’s definition of small talk may be somewhat unusual – they will steer the conversation towards ideas rather than weather, gossip etc.
  • Curious. ENFPs are very imaginative and open-minded. They enjoy trying out new things and do not hesitate to go outside their comfort zone if necessary.

ENFP weaknesses

  • Highly emotional. ENFP personalities tend to have very intense emotions, seeing them as an inseparable part of their identity. This may often cause the ENFP to react strongly to criticism, conflicts or tension.
  • May have poor practical skills. ENFPs are brilliant when it comes to solving problems, creating processes or initiating projects (especially if they involve other people) – however, they are likely to find it difficult to follow through and deal with the practical, administrative side of things.
  • Overthink things. ENFPs always look for hidden motives and tend to overthink even the simplest things, constantly asking themselves why someone did what they did and what that might mean.
  • Get stressed easily. ENFPs are very sensitive and care deeply about other people’s feelings – this can cause them a lot of stress sometimes as people often look toward them for guidance and encouragement, and the ENFP cannot always say “yes”.
  • Find it difficult to focus. People with the ENFP personality type lose interest quickly if their project shifts towards routine, administrative matters – they may not be able to stop their mind from wandering off.
  • Very independent. ENFPs loathe being micromanaged or restrained by rules and guidelines. They want to be seen as highly independent individuals, masters of their own fate.~ http://www.16personalities.com/enfp-strengths-and-weaknessesFamous ENFPs
  • Franz Joseph Haydn
    Will Rogers
    Buster Keaton
    Mickey Rooney
    Andy Rooney
    Carol Burnett
    Paul Harvey
    Elizabeth Montgomery
    Dom Delouise
    Dave Thomas
    Meg Ryan
    Robin Williams
    Sandra Bullock
    Robert Downey
    Alicia Silverstone
MyPersonalityInfoMultipleIntelligence
 Happy to find out I didn’t score an intelligence type below 50%… which means I’m pretty flexible and well rounded…making it good overall, I believe.
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And another one…
multipleintelligence

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Here are a few links to articles that you, other idealists out there, may want to read:

http://www.ipersonic.com/blog_files/Idealists-need-a-Vocation-not-a-Profession.html

http://artofmanliness.com/2010/05/24/finding-your-calling-part-i-what-is-a-vocation/

http://www.ipersonic.com/blog_files/How-Idealists-can-find-Meaning-in-their-Lives.html

Paranoid with Pablo: Stay Safe and Informed

I know I probably sound paranoid but I am just deeply and seriously concerned of disasters in my beloved Cebu. I have witnessed ‘Ruping’ way back year 1990; and although I was only four years old that time, I, ironically, remember well how it’s like to have your hometown hit by a typhoon — no water and electricity for weeks, seeing trees bowing down in a storm, electric posts pulled out , electrical wires scattered all over the street, roofs flying and homes torn like a cardboard box.

Ruping a.k.a. Super Typhoon Mike (international designation: 9025JTWC designation: 27WPAGASA name: Ruping) was the strongest and deadliest typhoon of the 1990 Pacific typhoonseason as it crossed the Philippines in November. – Wikipedia

I’m creating this post just to keep you guys informed about Typhoon Pablo and some Cebu updates; through several stuff I found useful in the internet.

Please see links, photos and info below:

1. The Official Gazette: Crisis Response Page: Updates on Typhoon Pablo  

Contains Nation-Wide Trackers, Crisis Map, Live Updates and Resources (Hotlines, Social Media, Evac Centers, Government Online Resources and etc…)

http://www.gov.ph/crisis/typhoon-pablo/

https://www.facebook.com/govph?fref=ts

http://www.gov.ph/

2.  Useful Contact numbers in cases of emergency

Got this from:   https://www.facebook.com/cebuuupdates

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3. Hotlines brought by SugboNes (https://www.facebook.com/sugbonews?fref=ts)

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. The Lapu-Lapu City Government Official Site and Related Web Pages (For my Fellow Oponganons and those who have relatives and families in Lapu-Lapu city) 

http://lapulapucity.gov.ph/

https://www.facebook.com/lapulapucity?fref=ts

https://twitter.com/lapulapucity

https://twitter.com/mactanpost  – http://news.lapulapucity.gov.ph/

5. PAG-ASA 

http://www.pagasa.dost.gov.ph/

https://twitter.com/dost_pagasa

6. CONTACT NUMBERS that may help (got this from flippy0721)

Numbers collected from online sources:

Philippine Red Cross Hotline – 143, (02) 911-1876; HQ – 527-0856
National Disaster Risk Reduction and Management Council (NDRRMC) – (02) 911-1406/912-2665/9125668
National Disaster Risk Reduction and Management Council (NDRRMC – Region VII) – (6332) 416 5025

National Disaster Coordinating Council (NDCC) – (02) 911-1406/911-1873/911-1906
* Cebu Fire Departments: (63) 32-2560541, 160
* Police: Mobile Patrol (Carbon, Cebu City)-(63) 32-2548635
* Police: Lapu-lapu Emergency Rescue Unit Foundation -(63) 32-3402994, 166
* Mactan-Cebu International Airport: +6332 340-2486

* Ambulance: 161
* Rescue: 117
* Cebu Car Hire: (+6332) 341-5797

In case of health emergency, one can call at the following health care centers for quick assistance:

* Cebu Doctors Hospital: +6332 253-7511; +6332 253-7516
* St. Vincent General Hospital: +032 254-4206/ 253-8296
* Mactan Community Hospital: +6332 340-3721; +6332 340-3728
* Sacred Heart Hospital-Cebu: +032 254-1841
* Cebu Velez General Hospital: +6332 253-1871; +6332 253-1879
* Vicente Sotto Memorial Medical Center: +6332 255-1591
* Chong Hua Hospital: +6332 254-1416

Cebu Fire Department (Cebu City)

Hotline – 160
(63) 32-2560541
(6332) 340-0252

Emergency Rescue Unit Foundation (ERUF)

Hotline – 161
(63) 32-3402994

AMBULANCE – 161

RESCUE (Hotline)- 117

Argao -(6332) 367-7680

Mandaue -(6332) 344-4747 / 344 – 3364

Mandaue (hot line)-(6332) 344-3364

Minglanilla -(6332) 273-2830

Naga -(6332) 272-6410

Talamban – (6332) 344-9200

Talisay City – (6332) 272-8277

Lapu-Lapu City – (6332) 340-0252

Cebu City Health Care Agencies

HOSPITALS

CEBU DOCTORS HOSPITAL
(6332) 253-7511
(6332) 253-7516
(6332) 255-5555
Osmeña Blvd., Cebu City

ST. VINCENT GENERAL HOSPITAL
6332 254-4206 / 253-8296
210-D Jones Avenue, Cebu City

MACTAN COMMUNITY HOSPITAL
(6332) 340-3721 , (6332) 340-3728
Basak, 6015 Lapu-Lapu City, Cebu

SACRED HEART HOSPITAL-CEBU
(6332)254-1841 ,(6332) 254-8821
Villa Asnar Urgello Private Rd. Cebu City

CEBU VELEZ GENERAL HOSPITAL
(6332) 253-1871 , (6332) 253-1879
F. Ramos St., Cebu City

VICENTE SOTTO MEMORIAL MEDICAL CENTER
(6332) 255-1591,(6332) 253-9891
B Rodriguez Cebu City

CHONG HUA HOSPITAL
(6332) 254-1461
(6332) 254-3228
(6332) 353-9409
Fuente Osmeña, Cebu City

Doctors Specialty Reactive Medical & Diagnostic
(6332) 253-6865
2/F F Suarez Bldg. Osmena Blvd. Cor. Llorente St.Cebu City

Cebu City Medical Center
(6332) 255-7141
N Bacalso Avenue ,Cebu City

Lapu-lapu District Hospital
(6332) 340-0248

Mandaue City District Hospital
(6332) 345-9739 to 42
Don Andres Soriano Avenue , Cebu City

Philippine National Red Cross
(6332) 253-4611

South General Hospital
(6332) 272-2020
Tuyan , Naga Cebu

Talisay City District Hospital
(6332) 273-8785
San Isidro , Talisay Cebu City

Mactan Doctor’s Hospital
(6332) 341-0000
Basak, Lapu-Lapu City, Mactan

Perpetual Soccour Hospital
(6332 232-2411; +6332 232-2418
(6332) 233-8620
Gerordo Ave., Cebu City

Miller Sanitarium & Hospital
(6332) 261-2100,262-1974
400 Tres de Abril Street , San Nicolas

Vicente Gullas Memorial Hospital
(6332) 346-9293 – 92
Banilad, Mandaue City

Tojong Hospital
(6332) 340-8101
Mactan

Metro – Cebu community Hospital
(6332) 253-1901; +6332 253-1902
Jones Ave., Cebu City

Visayas Community Medical Center
(6332) 253-6399; +6332 253-1901
Osmena Blvd., Cebu City

North General Hospital Inc.
(6332) 343-7777
Kauswagan Road, Talamban, Cebu City

Cortes General Hospital
(6332) 345 – 1486
C Ouano Mandaue City

Dr. Ignacio M. Cortes General Hospital Inc.
346 – 7850; 346 – 7859
Rizal Mandaue City

Cebu City Police Department Contact Numbers

POLICE MOBILE PATROL (CARBON CEBU CITY)
(63) 32-2548635;166

Lapu-Lapu Emergency Rescue Unit Foundation
(6332) 340-2994
(6332) 261-9788

MANDAUE CITY
(6332) 344-1200

NAGA
(6332) 272-6640

CONSOLACION
(6332) 346-2847

PARDO
(6332) 273- 3642

FUENTE OSMEÑA
(6332) 253-5636 / 255-7350

GUADALUPE
(6332) 256-2193 / 254 -3214

MAMBALING
(6332) 261-9804

MANDAUE CITY
(6332) 344-1200

ACERT
(6332) 420-2868

MINGLANILLA
(6332) 272-6662

NAGA
(6332) 489-8808

PARDO
(6332) 273-3642

PUNTA PRINCESA
(6332) 261-7507

SAN NICOLAS
(6332) 261-9788 / 341 – 1311

TALAMBAN
(6332) 244-7400

TALISAY
(6332) 273-3636

WATERFRONT CEBU
(6332) 254-6968

Mabolo Police Station
(6332) 233-6793

Mobile Patrol Group
(6332) 233-2178

Theft & Robbery Section
(6332) 234-0361

Security & Service Group
(6332) 233-0202

SWAT
(6332) 235-9666

Mactan Police Station
(6332) 341-1311

Mobile Patrol Group
(6332) 341-4847

Theft & Robbery Section
(6332) 341-1311

SWAT
(6332) 341-1311


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his post may be something to somebody but may probably be more of nothing-much… but I’ll still try to keep it updated with other stuff I will find useful. :)
I’m still looking for volunteering tasks for tomorrow in celebration of IVD (International Volunteers Day).

I hope to see sunshine tomorrow… :)

KEEP SAFE and STAY INFORMED! 

Challenges: More is Better (Looking at the Positive Side)

When your down… just remember what Izzie said

Sometimes, there’s just so much going on in our lives that we end up not knowing where to start, what to do and how to deal with it, especially when the many aspects involved are intertwined.

Aspect  1:  JOB

Employment is synonymous to money and career.
Two months ago, our department got dissolved. So, I, along with my department/team colleagues went with our lay-off money and well… went jobless in an instant.  As sad as it sounds for many people, it wasn’t really that bad.

How about freelance?

Well, yes, I do have a few freelance tasks but it’s just not that stable.  In my own opinion, nothing beats working for a company where you get to receive good company benefits, meet friendly colleagues every single working day and not having to think about work when you get home — except ,of course, if you are married, you have kids and family time is very important to you; that is where the need for Freelance comes in.

Anyway, where was I?
I’ve had tons of interviews and a few job offers but something just didn’t feel right so I turned it down.  I really want something more when it comes to writing.  I don’t want to entirely do the same stuff I do in my previous company; it was too repetitive –the topics were too repetitive, and I DREAD doing the word count thingy.  I want something that’s a step ahead — something more than just a good-paying repetitive-writing job.

Ohhhkay…ohhhkay… I’ll spill.

What I really want to be is a Technical Writer for an IT Company or an Instructional Writer (Training Officer) for Medical and Academic Institutions.  I like writing and/or creating manuals or instructional documents (business or not) along with some class-training or presentation tasks.

I can achieve that… yes, in fact, I have done some of that but my experience may not just be enough to get the position fast and easy.  I have utility bills to pay every month you know, and sadly (with a huge, and i mean really huge sigh), the bills won’t wait for me till I get that Technical/Instructional Writer job;  and we all know what happens when one is not able to pay ‘thee’ glorious utility bills… No Water, No TV, No Internet Connection, Empty-batt Lappies, Dead Phones, and Dark Muggy Nights.

Water, Phone/Internet and Electrical Bills — you just can’t easily forget about them! You just can’t say NO!

“No matter how high the stakes, sooner or later you’re just gonna have to go with your gut. And maybe, just maybe, that’ll take you right where you were supposed to be.”
-Meredith Grey

Then again…I am determined; What I want to become, I will be… even if it means I have to suffer.  I’m liking my fighting spirit! (nod)

I hope it’ll pay my utility bills next month though! Waahhh xD

“They say the bigger your investment, the bigger your return. But you have to be willing to take a chance. You have to understand you might lose it all. But if you take that chance, if you invest wisely, the payoff might just surprise you. (Grey’s Anatomy)”

Aspect  2: LOVE

I know you are all gonna hate me for getting bothered with something as ‘not-so-important’ (really?) as LOVE LIFE, but believe me, I’ve been telling myself that for months now and I still end up landing on that same dark-and-twisty hole of misery.  Don’t get me wrong. I know there’s more to life than love, but it’s still an aspect we need (though not often admitted).

“People are stupid and just want to be loved. That’s the only reason anyone does anything.”
-Miranda Bailey (Grey’s Anatomy)

It’s not about not having a boyfriend or not being in a relationship at this very moment, but it’s about being emotionally taken by someone you thought you could have, you thought was into you and loves you but turns out you were just that somewhat-somebody that’s ’friend-zoned‘ and that person who did so much to make you fall for him and you in return allowed yourself to fall in love with, actually has a girlfriend — which also extremely confuses me as to why he acts the way he does towards me to the point that it feels extremely real (other people, even guys!, seriously notice). *whew *think

 ”Too far-fetched to believe, too obvious to ignore.” - Nicholas Sparks

Plus, (you are probably going to hate me more…) as stupid as it sounds, although he is responsible for this shattered, bruised, and torn heart,  I still CAN’T find the heart to hate him; no kidding. I’m rarely a hater though.

I turned down three suitors too (a friend got quite mad at me bec. of this). Call me a saint, but I just really don’t have the heart to do it — get into a relationship with someone I don’t love.  I am thankful that I am loved but I don’t want to be selfish or a user.  As I said, it’s not about having a boyfriend, it’s about the love! (I know..slap me, I’m a moron lols)


“The point is…we can’t help who we fall in love with ” – Meredith Grey

I was never this stupid before, even with my exes…but the gut feeling just wouldn’t go away. Every time I try to forget, something that definitely reminds me of him would just pop out of nowhere (like his Full name and Last name initial showing up 3 to 4 times on my way home in HUGE BOLD CAPITAL LETTERS in just about anywhere …or  in a commuting vehicle with a stranger who keeps on repeating HIS NAME (over and over and over and over again) until you get to your destination) and cripple me from forgetting.

I just really wonder why I feel like I’m suddenly losing that good head above my shoulder when it comes to him and this! waaahhh *insertFUUUU9-gagtroll

Should’ve believed that line  Mr. Cyclops said in the movie ’27 Dresses’ —–  “‘Love is patient, love is kind…love means slowly losing your mind”.  I mean, I thought I’d always have control over these emotions like I always do in the past.  Then again, life laughed at me, slapped me awake and proved me wrong.  I can still play cool and happy but I already died a few months back.

(Pffftt, people say he loves me but he just doesn’t want to admit it bec. he has a girlfriend — True? I don’t know. Maybe? He should watch Sprout ( a japanese series — I sooo feel Miku) and take to heart episode 10 (He is sooo like Souhei!!raawwrrr).  Maybe that’ll shed some light in whatever-in-him-that-needs-shedding. 

If you love two people at the same time, choose the second one, because if you really loved the first one you wouldn’t have fallen for the second. – Johnny Depp

…just sayin’! xD  ) [words from my  back-mind]

Hahaha My back mind is kinda crazy… I don’t want to force people really.  I don’t chase people too. I just do my stuff and I let myself be.  I believe that  the right people – the ones who really belong and want to belong in my life, will have the will to come to me, be with me and stay.

I can’t believe I’m typing all these cheesy, but true, stuff.  Another Dramatic Episode for me *facepalm

But anyway, love is love and that’s just really how it goes… I’m not over the whole thing yet; I still love him, I still miss him and I still cry, I admit that (not physically obvious though)… but, at least I’m a little better than I was a few weeks back and I said what I needed to say, I guess.  Only time can tell and picture the next season episodes.

If you want to know what it’s really all about…it’s an incredibly long story and if I do type it here… it’ll just complicate my already confused (or just in denial?) mind of what the situation and the situation’s backstage really are.

Aspect 3:  FIGURE

How can I turn  this Figure 8 leaning to Figure O (Zero) into a Figure 8 leaning to Figure 1?  I’m not skinny and I don’t want to be skinny but I just really want to lose a whole lot of weight.  I’m not anorexic oohhkkayyy… I’m just uhmm.. chubby and more often than not it gets in the way between me and my love for clothes; not that I am not able to flaunt them with grace but… I just really want to look a little less chubbier than chubby and non plus-size. And my arms! yes, my arms! ssheessshh! If  these arms were some character in a computer shooting game I have long shot these to death and scraped them like no tomorrow (exaggeratingly speaking >:D) hahahah.

I’ve been dieting the whole year round and yes..I did see changes but, it’s just not enough to wear a few of my many favorite skirts and dresses.

I believe in becoming a better version of one’s self.

I don’t really compare myself with other people nor do I really care about what others say about me but I am my own critic and a cruel self-critic I am!  I don’t even have the nerve to wear sleeveless tops for crying out loud!

I just really love clothes and it really sucks not being able to wear them, or maybe being able to wear them but with my self-critic saying and believing it looks awful.

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“Some days, the whole world seems upside down. And then somehow, and probably when you least expect it, the world rights itself again. (Grey’s Anatomy)”

Looking on the bright side of things…the more the challenges the better chances of learning, growing and becoming the person you are ought to become.  Safe sides keep you stable but it won’t give room to make you grow.  Life is a gamble: Almost everything in life is a choice — a risk, I’d rather get wounded than run away like a coward.  One day, all will be well.

“Passion. It lies in all of us. Sleeping… waiting… and though unwanted, unbidden, it will stir… open its jaws and howl. It speaks to us… guides us. Passion rules us all. And we obey. What other choice do we have? Passion is the source of our finest moments. The joy of love… the clarity of hatred… the ecstasy of grief. It hurts sometimes more than we can bear. If we could live without passion, maybe we’d know some kind of peace. But we would be hollow. Empty rooms, shuttered and dank. Without passion, we’d be truly dead.”

― J. Whedon

So there… *whew LIFE!

I feel a whole lot better now. :D My poor blog has once again become my sort-of  rant page…hehe. Forgive me If I was all dramatic and stuff and for the Grey’s Anatomy gifs. I just re-watched my super fave seasons 1 to 5, again!, so I’m all Grey’s Anatomy today.
I need to sleep early; I have another set of interviews tomorrow ^^ Toodles!

To laugh often and much; to win the respect of intelligent people and the affection of children; to earn the appreciation of honest critics and to endure the betrayal of false friends. To appreciate beauty; to find the best in others; to leave the world a bit better whether by a healthy child, a garden patch, or a redeemed social condition; to know that even one life has breathed easier because you have lived. This is to have succeeded.

What-I-do Meme: Writers

Made the photo below a few months ago; back when “What I do” Meme Generators became a fad.

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(ROFL)

 I honestly think I did a pretty good job in portraying the whole thing. :D :) ) hahahah *wink

 

Date a girl who Reads…or better yet, date a girl who Writes

DATE A GIRL WHO READS

A Girl Who Reads

A Girl Who Reads

You should date a girl who reads.

Date a girl who reads. Date a girl who spends her money on books instead of clothes, who has problems with closet space because she has too many books. Date a girl who has a list of books she wants to read, who has had a library card since she was twelve.

Find a girl who reads. You’ll know that she does because she will always have an unread book in her bag. She’s the one lovingly looking over the shelves in the bookstore, the one who quietly cries out when she has found the book she wants. You see that weird chick sniffing the pages of an old book in a secondhand book shop? That’s the reader. They can never resist smelling the pages, especially when they are yellow and worn.

She’s the girl reading while waiting in that coffee shop down the street. If you take a peek at her mug, the non-dairy creamer is floating on top because she’s kind of engrossed already. Lost in a world of the author’s making. Sit down. She might give you a glare, as most girls who read do not like to be interrupted. Ask her if she likes the book.

Buy her another cup of coffee.

Let her know what you really think of Murakami. See if she got through the first chapter of Fellowship. Understand that if she says she understood James Joyce’s Ulysses she’s just saying that to sound intelligent. Ask her if she loves Alice or if she would like to be Alice.

It’s easy to date a girl who reads. Give her books for her birthday, for Christmas, for anniversaries. Give her the gift of words, in poetry and in song. Give her Neruda, Pound, Sexton, Cummings. Let her know that you understand that words are love. Understand that she knows the difference between books and reality but by god, she’s going to try to make her life a little like her favorite book. It will never be your fault if she does.

She has to give it a shot somehow.

Lie to her. If she understands syntax, she will understand your need to lie. Behind words are other things: motivation, value, nuance, dialogue. It will not be the end of the world.

Fail her. Because a girl who reads knows that failure always leads up to the climax. Because girls who read understand that all things must come to end, but that you can always write a sequel. That you can begin again and again and still be the hero. That life is meant to have a villain or two.

Why be frightened of everything that you are not? Girls who read understand that people, like characters, develop. Except in the Twilight series.

If you find a girl who reads, keep her close. When you find her up at 2 AM clutching a book to her chest and weeping, make her a cup of tea and hold her. You may lose her for a couple of hours but she will always come back to you. She’ll talk as if the characters in the book are real, because for a while, they always are.

You will propose on a hot air balloon. Or during a rock concert. Or very casually next time she’s sick. Over Skype.

You will smile so hard you will wonder why your heart hasn’t burst and bled out all over your chest yet. You will write the story of your lives, have kids with strange names and even stranger tastes. She will introduce your children to the Cat in the Hat and Aslan, maybe in the same day. You will walk the winters of your old age together and she will recite Keats under her breath while you shake the snow off your boots.

Date a girl who reads because you deserve it. You deserve a girl who can give you the most colorful life imaginable. If you can only give her monotony, and stale hours and half-baked proposals, then you’re better off alone. If you want the world and the worlds beyond it, date a girl who reads.

Or better yet, date a girl who writes. ~R. Urquico

DATE A GIRL WHO WRITES

A Girl Who Writes

A Girl Who Writes

Date a girl who writes. She’s hard to find because she’s the one who stands in the corner of the room watching other people from a distance. She’s the one who searches their faces and watches their body language. She stands close enough that she can hear but far enough away so that she won’t be seen. She’s a master at invisibility, and all the smart girls know she’s the best at eavesdropping. They go to her for the gossip. She knows who is in love with whom just by watching them.
You’ll be a lucky man if you find her. She’s the one with a journal in her hand, a notebook in her purse, scrap paper in her car, and pencils in her back pocket. She’s always scribbling something, praying it won’t evaporate before she gets it down onto paper. And because she’s always scribbling, she’s always looking down, and that’s why you never noticed her before.

If you’re lucky, you’ll find her at a library or in a park or at a coffee shop or in an airport, drinking coffee and watching people or typing furiously at her computer. If you see her looking at you, look back and wait.

If she looks away she doesn’t want to be interrupted and she doesn’t want you to notice her, so pretend you don’t. But if you can get her to look at you and not look away, she wants to talk to you. She’s targeted you, pursuing you, inviting you. Once she catches your eye, once she hears your voice that first time, she begins her profile. She’s the one who will have your character in 10 seconds and have you completely profiled in 10 minutes.

After two weeks she’ll know you better than you know yourself.

If you catch her muttering to herself, don’t feel awkward, she’s talking with the characters in her story, probably arguing about what happens next.

Don’t lie to her because she knows. She can see it in your eyes, hear it in your voice, sense it in your energy field. She pays attention to every detail of your every word and if you’re not careful, she’ll ask the question that strips your lie away and you’ll be humiliated.

So tell the damn truth.

If something is wrong, you may as well tell her because she’ll figure it out. When something is wrong, you may as well tell her because otherwise she’ll jump to the most absurd, most outlandish, most creative but ridiculous possibilities anyone could ever come up with, and when the truth comes out and she tells you what she thought, you’ll remind her she’s crazy, and she’ll remind you that she knows this because of the voices, and you’ll both laugh and hug and go on with life.

It’s easy to shop for a girl who writes: office supplies like sticky notes and pencils, calendars, and especially beautiful journals will bring her immense joy because she knows that blank paper is the beginning of a new person, a new life, a new world. And holding that blank notebook in her hands lets her feel the power she knows exists inside her soul.

If you find out she’s upset, don’t ask her why, just let her cry until she hands you her journal and goes to stand by the window until you finish reading her most recent entry. She could never tell you what was wrong with her mouth because her soul is in her hands. Once you read that entry, skip back in her journal and read the parts about you, because if she handed you her journal and walked away, it means she wants you to read it. She wants you to know that she dreams about becoming your only love every night, and that she has the whole thing planned out.

Then once you know the plan, carry it out. She’ll play along.

She’ll write the wedding invitations, and the baby announcements, and stories for your children. She’ll write you letters in your lunch every day and put sweet sensual notes on your pillow in the evenings. she’ll ramble on and on as you take long walks along the beach and tell you all about a world that doesn’t exist, and people who were never born and will never die and whom she loves as much as she loves your children, because her characters are just more of her children.

Don’t feel like you didn’t help create them because chances are, if you love a girl who writes, there’s a piece of you embedded in every hero, and a piece of herself in every heroine. you can sleep at night knowing that even after you both die, you’ll both continue to live together in everyone else’s minds through her books and stories, and you can live a thousand nights in stories that never end.

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Date a girl who may never wear completely clean clothes, because of coffee stains and ink spills. She’ll have many problems with her closet space, and her laptop is never boring because there are so many words, so many worlds that she’s cluttered amidst the space. Tabs open filled with obscure and popular music. Interesting factoids about Catherine the Great, and the immortality of jellyfish. Laugh it off when she tells you that she forgot to clean her room, that her clothes are lost among the binders so it’ll take her longer to get ready, that her shoes hidden under the mountain of broken Bic pens and the refurbished laptop that she’s saved for ever since she was twelve.

Kiss her under the lamppost, when it’s raining. Tell her your definition of love.

Find a girl who writes. You’ll know that she has a sense of humor, a sense of empathy and kindness, and that she will dream up worlds, universes for you. She’s the one with the faintest of shadows underneath her eyelids, the one who smells of coffee and Coca-cola and jasmine green tea. You see that girl hunched over a notebook. That’s the writer. With her fingers occasionally smudged with charcoal, with ink that will travel onto your hands when you interlock your fingers with her’s. She will never stop, churning out adventures, of traitors and heroes. Darkness and light. Fear and love. That’s the writer. She can never resist filling a blank page with words, whatever the color of the page is.

She’s the girl reading while waiting for her coffee and tea. She’s the quiet girl with her music turned up loud (or impossibly quiet), separating the two of you by an ocean of crescendos and decrescendos as she’s thinking of the perfect words. If you take a peek at her cup, the tea or coffee’s already cold. She’s already forgotten it.

Use a pick-up line with her if she doesn’t look to busy.

If she raises her head, offer to buy her another cup of coffee. Or of tea. She’ll repay you with stories. If she closes her laptop, give her your critique of Tolstoy, and your best theories of Hannibal and the Crossing. Tell her your characters, your dreams, and ask if she gotten through her first novel.

It is hard to date a girl who writes. But be patient with her. Give her books for her birthday, pretty notebooks for Christmas and for anniversaries, moleskins and bookmarks and many, many books. Give her the gift of words, for writers are talkative people, and they are verbose in their thanks. Let her know that you’re behind her every step of the way, for the lines between fiction and reality are fluid.

She’ll give you a chance.

Don’t lie to her. She’ll understand the syntax behind your words. She’ll be disappointed by your lies, but a girl who writes will understand. She’ll understand that sometimes even the greatest heroes fail, and that happy endings take time, both in fiction and reality. She’s realistic. A girl who writes isn’t impatient; she will understand your flaws. She will cherish them, because a girl who writes will understand plot. She’ll understand that endings happen for better or for worst.

A girl who writes will not expect perfection from you. Her narratives are rich, her characters are multifaceted because of interesting flaws. She’ll understand that a good book does not have perfect characters; villains and tragic flaws are the salt of books. She’ll understand trouble, because it spices up her story. No author wants an invincible hero; the girl who writes will understand that you are only human.

Be her compatriot, be her darling, her love, her dream, her world.

If you find a girl who writes, keep her close. If you find her at two AM, typing furiously, the neon gaze of the light illuminating her furrowed forehead, place a blanket gently on her so that she does not catch a chill. Make her a pot of tea, and sit with her. You may lose her to her world for a few moments, but she will come back to you, brimming with treasure. You will believe in her every single time, the two of you illuminated only by the computer screen, but invincible in the darkness.

She is your Shahrazad. When you are afraid of the dark, she will guide you, her words turning into lanterns, turning into lights and stars and candles that will guide you through your darkest times. She’ll be the one to save you.

She’ll whisk you away on a hot air balloon, and you will be smitten with her. She’s mischievous, frisky, yet she’s quiet and when she has to kill off a lovely character, when she cries, hold her and tell her that it will be alright.

You will propose to her. Maybe on a boat in the ocean, maybe in a little cottage in the Appalachian Mountains. Maybe in New York City. Maybe Chicago. Baltimore. Maybe outside her publisher’s office. Because she’s radiant, wherever she goes. Maybe even outside of a cinema where the two of you kiss in the rain. She’ll say that it is overused and clichéd, but the glint in her eyes will tell you that she appreciates it all the same.

You will smile hard as she talks a mile a second, and your heart will skip a beat when she holds your hand and she will write stories of your lives together. She’ll hold you close and whisper secrets into your ears. She’s lovely, remember that. She’s self made and she’s brilliant. Her names for the children might be terrible, but you’ll be okay with that. A girl who writes will tell your children fantastical stories.

Because that is the best part about a girl who writes. She has imagination and she has courage, and it will be enough. She’ll save you in the oceans of her dreams, and she’ll be your catharsis and your 11:11. She’ll be your firebird and she’ll be your knight, and she’ll become your world, in the curve of her smile, in the hazel of her eye the half-dimple on her face, the words that are pouring out of her, a torrent, a wave, a crescendo – so many sensations that you will be left breathless by a girl who writes.

Maybe she’s not the best at grammar, but that is okay.

Date a girl who writes because you deserve it. She’s witty, she’s empathetic, enigmatic at times and she’s lovely. She’s got the most colorful life. She may be living in NYC or she may be living in a small cottage. Date a girl who writes because a girl who writes reads.

A girl who writes will understand reality. She’ll be infuriating at times, and maybe sometimes you will hate her. Sometimes she will hate you too. But a girl who writes understands human nature, and she will understand that you are weak. She will not leave on the Midnight Train the first moment that things go sour. She will understand that real life isn’t like a story, because while she works in stories, she lives in reality.

Date a girl who writes.

Because there is nothing better then a girl who writes.

 

 

 

credit/s to : watchamacallit-claa and korafull

Livable Cebu

It’s time people know and/or remember what true urbanism really is.

The development and growth of a community or a city should not just be about the hundreds of skyscrapers popping in the metro, but it would also include planning of infrastructure that will not only make cities ecologically sound, but also socially sustainable and reliable——-livable.

Sometimes, people get too excited with all the development and that’s not really a bad thing… it’s just that we should not forget that there should be a set of welfare equilibria for most urban concerns
People Living in The City/ Working In The City – Accommodation; Elderly / Children/ Recognizing Inhabitants – Population Age Structure
Balance between Stone and Green; Historical and Modern Infrastructure; Pedestrian Movement and Motorized Transport; and etc…

“Interrelationship between the built urban environment and citizens’ well-being, and their explicit concern with values in urban decision making that enrich the quality of everyday life of the city’s inhabitants, especially children.” – IMCL

I want a Livable Cebu! Do you?
Movement for a Livable Cebu.
Join and share the cause to make Cebu a sustainable and livable community!

Break from your chains and live!

“I’m selfish, impatient and a little insecure. I make mistakes, I am out of control and at times hard to handle. But if you can’t handle me at my worst, then you sure as hell don’t deserve me at my best.”
― Marilyn Monroe

Change for your own benefit not for anyone else’s demands or rules. Don’t intend to rearrange you and your life to please others. Be your own critic. Do not pretend to be what you are not; what you are, you have to be!

Life is too short to bother about what people-who-can’t-accept-you-for-who-you-are think and want from you.  Don’t ever let them tell you you are not good enough. If these people can’t deal with that, missing half of their life is no longer your problem. Know your worth!

Nobody can tell and demand you what and who you are supposed to become. This is your life, you have all the right to live it YOUR way (and with God’s guidance).

Do not bother to be perfect, but strive to be better.

“Imperfection is beauty, madness is genius and it’s better to be absolutely ridiculous than absolutely boring.”
― Marilyn Monroe, Marilyn

You are unique and you are great that way.

What others think of you is none of your business; what you think of yourself is what matters. Stop trying to please people who accept you conditionally, stop playing by the rules of someone else’s game and LIVE!

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